Compromise

Compromise can never become the base of Your friendship/relationship etc.

Okay, so I will use the word BOND here for whether it is friendship/relationship or whatever you call a thread between The two people.

I mean,why every third person of this globe wants the other one to compromise for the sake of the bond between them ? WHY?

Compromising with emotions/likes-dislikes/

behaviour or perceptions of yours.

I mean these are the things which makes you,YOU. Right ?

People usually use the sentences 

‘LET’S COMPRO” or “IF WE WANT THIS THING TO WORK,ONE SHOULD HAVE TO COMPROMISE.”

In such type of compromise ONE has to step back so the OTHER ONE can come on the front seat.

And by doing that everytime,

one day you will realise that compromises left nothing inside you

But a altered soul.

There is nothing left inside you which used to made you-YOU.

Okay,so one can compromise in a situation or with surrounding but

I guess no any person should compromise with themselves, with their own emotions, with their own feelings And the way they take things so personly.

Why can’t anyone is not ready to ACCEPT rather than expecting Someone to make COMPROMISE.

LIKE if someone is not comfortable/happy with a certain action of yours,then why can’t you stop doing that rather than expecting them to compromise with your actions.

How can a particular action be more important than comfort /emotions ?

 I mean I'm not able to understand the level of expectations of people that Someone needs to compromise with their emotions because they can’t alter their Action. I mean HOW?

       

      "SO in this trending Era of POV."

From my point of view

"Acceptance and Adjustment" can be the best ever tectonic plates to save your bond from the Huge massive earthquakes.

but compromise will 

shake you and break you from inside out after a certain period of time.

You will feel hollow.

You will not feel yourself anymore.

Infact you will stop feeling all the emotions one day.

Expecting someone to Compromise for you mean-you are not ready to accept the person infront of you as the way THEY are.

Either It should simply mean-it is not what you were looking for OR it is not what you wanted before.

BUT ........

Will you get everything you want in one person or whichever bond you had. 

AND

what if one day you have to compromise from the core of your heart for which you are not ready for ?

Will you able to do that ?