Is this really selflove?

Is this really selflove?

People come and people go!

What is left behind is you.

Human beings are very fond of selflove these days.

Are they really mean it?

I mean-

Is this really self love to be self Centred

 

Is this really selflove to isolate yourself from your loved ones and family?

Is this really selflove to be this much selfish that you can't see others suffering?

Is this really selflove to leave people in dilemma and  be a cold hearted?

Cause now a days people doing this and calling it self love!!

But i guess -

Selflove is should be something that make you realise your worth not other worthless.

Selflove should be something that make you feel loved 

not to  make someone unloved.

Selflove should be something that no one can ever make you feel less valuable 

not to make feel others cheapen.

Selflove should be something with that you can be happy but 

not by making others responsible for not being unhappy.

Selflove should be love for yourself

not having hate for someone else.

Selflove should be something that makes you feel relaxed by yourself

not by leaving people with their anxious behavior.

Selflove should be selfless not selfish.

Selflove should make you more sensitive not impervious..

If you can't understand others pain and suffering

If you cant see how much is someone is going through.

If you cant see someone's vulnerability and consciousness

If you can't understand someone's false pleasure and truth behind their falws.

So

This is not SELFLOVE that you FLAUNT..

And something that 

IS needed to be FLAUNT can never make you STRONG.